Is it hard being a single woman in l.a.?
Or worse, is it harder being a committed woman in Los Angeles? OR IS IT JUST THE WHOLE U.S. PERIOD?
What is it so much about being “single” that women fear? I mean seriously, what is so scary about being alone? And are you every really ALONE? Or are you confusing alone with LONELY?
I am a journalist, I am a lifestyle management guru, DEFINITELY I am an escape artist, at the end of the day
I am everyone’s best friend.
Talk to me, I will listen & my answers will be based on my experiences not my preconceived notions.
Too many times, you get advice from someone who hasn’t been in your shoes? How can someone tell you about something they haven’t gone through? And HOW CERTAIN are you that they made the correct decisions?
You have to careful… some people WANT you to make the same mistakes that have caused them complete unhappiness.
I am in the business of creating happiness, mainly because that is what I project. I am crazy in love with life… I am crazy about my friends… I am just crazy about living!!
And… What is exactly the battle of the sexes? Are there any rules to dating anymore? Are there any indignities? And what exactly is commitmentphobia? Or is it that you knew better than to be PLAYING house?
I watch women everyday, men even scouring the city… searching for someone, a “soul-mate” as you call it. Is there even a such thing? I mean is there no “working things out anymore.” Have we created an environment where if things aren’t “picture perfect” it doesn’t make sense? And if things don’t go according to your plan… am I not your “soul-mate” anymore? You just leave…?
And what exactly is compatibility? What happened to the good outweighing the bad? Or just simply looking for the good? Is optimism dead? Do you really have to down play or critique everything a person does? Are you unable to be satisfied?
And what about the gal about town? The one who loves being around her friends & family? Can we not have friends, family & a man? Do you have to choose between the three? Don’t all three offer completeness? Or a full circle? What’s funny is she is often mistaken for the independent woman… and is it bad to be independent? I am confused….. lol
And what happened to having a best friend? I hear so many people say I don’t need friends, or I don’t need a man, is self-sufficiency leading our new era? Can you really be that self-sufficient? Is is that bad to open your heart to someone and have a real relationship?….
I am intrigued and fascinated with life. I am happy with every thing I have been through, there is so much growth from any type of relationships.
Strength & vibrancy is what I want people to find in themselves. I know there are times when you can find yourselves in complex situations, but be strong enough to withstand it.
What type of choices are you making in your life? Are they unselfish? Are you the only person for your benefit? If so, where does your really happiness really lie?
Questioning your family or your friends or society for your bad mishaps? Be responsible, question yourself… you are the future of your own destiny.
My blog, my company, my life is dedicated to beautiful people & beautiful surroundings.
Beautiful can mean so many things… and I honestly wish the world could be viewed through the eyes of a child.
Everyone has been through something, so learn to be non-judgmental… there is so much more to life…so many more smiley faces :).
I know this blog doesn’t have a since of direction.. but I just wanted a little space to introduce myself.
These topics help you understand my train of thought, help you understand my focus.
I am currently “dating my city”, the product of a modern woman & a housewife. I am a blithe spirit… supportive and a great listener. I believe in monogamy, but I understand fidelity.
I understand life, but I am boggled with life-experiences.
Emotionally, I am a heroine & I have already found Mr.Right.
I look forward to talking to you all… I look forward to whatever help I can offer…
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